PRODUCER. POET. WRITER. BELIEVER.

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Welcome to

TheNicoleWebb.com

I don’t believe in coincidences. I believe in divine appointments. I believe that you are here for a reason––that you stumbled across this space for a purpose.

I also believe that we are all in some need of healing–from our pasts, from our world, or from a culture that doesn’t always accept us as we are for who we are.
And this space is a healing space.

Here, you’ll find community. You will read about experiences that may be similar to your own, or someone you know.

However you arrived here, know that
YOU ARE SAFE & WELCOME here.

xo, Nic.

“Marriage is NOT the goal; it is not the finish line. It is simply an avenue that GOD uses for some of us––not all of us––to continue unveiling the work He’s already been performing in us. Our womanhood does not begin nor end with the institution of marriage; it is simply being transformed.”
– #TheRibLifeJourney

The Latest from #TheRibLifeJourney Blog.

#TheRibLifeJourney
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Work For It.

I’m juggling a new circus act called, “My Life” right now, and, currently, one of the things falling through the cracks: one-on-one time with my husband.

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I Hate This Part.

You know the part where we play pretend…the part where we pretend that we’re really confident in ourselves…

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Everybody Can’t Go With You…

As I continue to journey through adulthood, there’s one lesson that has presented itself to me more times than I’d like to admit:  EVERYBODY CAN’T GO WITH YOU.

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Slowly, Surely: A Prayer For Our Daughters…

Oftentimes, birthing a human being happens Slowly and Surely. It takes time.

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GROWTH 101: Relationships Change.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in this season of my life as a newlywed and soon-to-be new mama it’s that your relationships will change. To be honest, they have to change.

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The Part They Don’t Warn You About: Prenatal Depression

Pregnancy is one of the most joyous times any woman can experience…but it can also be one of the most darkest.

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Expecting The Unexpected.

Moment of transparency: Sometimes unexpected blessings don’t feel so great in the moment. There is something to say about when the unexpected happens when you least expect it.

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Dear [Single] Nicole, Thank You.

I can’t really remember the first time you recognized your desire for marriage. But knee deep into your twenties, something shifted. After one failed relationship after the next, you decided to give up your desire for marriage.

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I Cried The Day After I Got Engaged…Because I Was Sad.

An amazing man proposed to me in front of the most beautiful view…and it was PERFECT. But less than 24 hours later, I found myself driving down Route 13 back to my apartment in Salisbury…and I sobbed.

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It’s The Me For Me

2020 part one was pretty ghetto for us all. And by the looks of caucasity and  the audacity of caucasity in just the first few weeks of the new year, 2021 is already off to a pretty interesting & tumultuous start. BUT, there is still cause for us to make space to celebrate.

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I empower women to explore their GOD-given identity and sexuality without shame––unapologetically.

The Latest from The Transparency Pact.

The Transparency Pact
Sis, Buy Yourself Some Lingerie! Sensuality & Sexuality are NOT Sinful.
Sis, Buy Yourself Some Lingerie! Sensuality & Sexuality are NOT Sinful.

I came home from work one day, looked at myself in the mirror and was like, “WOW. She’s fire; she deserves amazing things!” So I put on a sexy playlist, poured myself a glass of wine, began parading my still fully clothed self around my apartment…and then I felt shame.

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My Fiancé is a Virgin. But… I’m NOT.
My Fiancé is a Virgin. But… I’m NOT.

During one of the first in depth conversations Neil and I had before we starting dating, he shared that he was a virgin. Not too long after, shame and insecurity started to plague me…because I’m not.

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My Struggle with Lust
My Struggle with Lust

When I began having sex, I was scared out of my mind. Like most of you, I was told a lot in church, "Don't have sex before you're married!" Never really was told the why (PROBLEM!), so when I "did it," I swore I was going to catch all of GOD's wrath in the form of an STD or an unplanned pregnancy.

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Christianity & Sexuality
Christianity & Sexuality

Isn't it rather odd that the church runs from conversations about what it means to be a sexual being and sexuality when the GOD we praise created us in His image–meaning that sexuality and sexual desires were originally created by GOD?

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“GOD made us and our sexuality. Therefore our sexuality and our sexual identity are a good thing. But the enemy has jaded our lens on that. No more! This is relearning who GOD has created us to be as we reclaim our GOD-given identity and sexuality.”
– The Transparency Pact